Faulty reasoning signals

• Confirmation Bias - 0.4% (3 hits)
• Anchoring Bias - 0%
• Availability Heuristic - 3.4% (25 hits)
• Representativeness Heuristic - 0%
• Hindsight Bias - 5.4% (39 hits)
• Overconfidence Bias - 2.5% (18 hits)
• Framing Effect - 1.2% (9 hits)
• Loss Aversion - 0%
• Status Quo Bias - 1.7% (12 hits)
• Sunk Cost Effect - 1% (7 hits)
• Optimism Bias - 4.7% (34 hits)
• Pessimism Bias - 2.1% (15 hits)

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Modern Love Podcast

Eddie Huang Drops the Tough Guy Act

The chef and writer wants men to do better.

Himself included.

By The Modern Love Podcast Team

Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo: Daniel Zuchnik/Getty Images

How Getting Stoned With My Dad Helped Us Heal

It took a painful reckoning with history, and a lot of cannabis, to bring Julian Brave NoiseCat and his father back together.

By Anna Martin, Davis Land, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez, Marion Lozano, Pat McCusker and Dan Powell

Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo: Angela Weiss/Agence France-Presse — Getty Images

Laverne Cox Is Ready to Tell the Truth.

Even if It’s Messy.

The actor always knew what she wanted.

Getting there was more complicated.

By Anna Martin

Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo: The New York Times

I Tried to Have a Kid With My Best Friend.

It Got Complicated.

Two queer friends dreamed of raising a child together.

They almost made it real.

By Anna Martin, Reva Goldberg, Davis Land, Sara Curtis, Elisa Gutierrez, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez, Dan Powell, Elisheba Ittoop, Marion Lozano and Pat McCusker

Illustration by Brian Rea

Is Codependency Good?

The filmmaking duo Mark Duplass and Katie Aselton sure think so.

By Anna Martin

Love Lessons From Ramy Youssef’s Dog

What the comedian’s dog has taught him about unconditional love.

By Anna Martin

Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo:: Monica Schipper/Getty Images

Isabel Allende and Her Mother Told Each Other (Almost) Everything

The novelist and her mom connected through writing letters.

Over 24,000 of them.

By Anna Martin

Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo: Eric Risberg/Associated Press

My Mom Had a Secret Daughter.

I Finally Found Her.

Tracy Clark-Flory, a writer, on meeting her long-lost sister and how her mother’s life was shaped by being sent away to a “home for unwed mothers” in the 1960s.

By Anna Martin

Illustration by Brian Rea

No, I Won’t Be Your Bridesmaid

The writer Ruhama Wolle is done with the role and its expectations.

But for anyone facing a wave of weddings, she has tips.

By Anna Martin

Illustration by Brian Rea

Friends for 16 Years.

Lovers for One Night.

(Encore)

They always wondered what it would be like to sleep together.

By the time they were ready to find out, it was almost too late.

By Anna Martin, Reva Goldberg, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Christina Djossa, Amy Pearl, Sara Curtis, Jen Poyant, Lynn Levy, Sonia Herrero, Daniel Ramirez, Dan Powell, Pat McCusker, Sophia Lanman, Rowan Niemisto and Marion Lozano

I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak.

Only This Worked.

Faced with a sudden end to her marriage, Lauren Bans found relief in an unexpected place.

By Anna Martin, Reva Goldberg, Davis Land, Sara Curtis, Elisa Gutierrez, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez, Dan Powell, Elisheba Ittoop and Pat McCusker

Elizabeth Banks Married Her College Sweetheart.

They’re Still in Love.

The “Miniature Wife” star on why she and her husband have chosen each other, over and over again.

By Anna Martin, Elisa Gutierrez, Emily Lang, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez and Dan Powell

My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough

Stefanie Gunning had to reach her lowest point to realize what she needed for herself.

By Anna Martin, Reva Goldberg, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Sara Curtis, Elisa Gutierrez, Jen Poyant, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez, Dan Powell, Elisheba Ittoop, Carole Sabouraud and Pat McCusker

Zendaya and Robert Pattinson on Marriage and Secrets

The stars of the new film, “The Drama,” debate the pros and cons of dredging up the past.

By Anna Martin

I Didn’t Want to Have Kids.

My Husband Did.

Could Our Marriage Survive?

Helena de Groot thought she had decided not to become a mother.

But, she found, she had to make that decision over and over again.

By Anna Martin, Reva Goldberg, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Sara Curtis, Elisa Gutierrez, Jen Poyant, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez, Dan Powell, Elisheba Ittoop, Carole Sabouraud and Pat McCusker

What Happened When My Dad and I Came Out to Each Other

After we told the truth, our relationship would never be the same.

By Anna Martin, Elisa Gutierrez, Jen Poyant, Lynn Levy, Daniel Ramirez, Dan Powell, Elisheba Ittoop, Rowan Niemisto and Marion Lozano